SMOOTH YOUR PATH WITH NOBLE FRIENDS

What direction are your friends taking you?
Tell me who your best friends are, and i will tell you who you are. If you run with wolves you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights. Proverb says, ''A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of fiends he chooses.'' The simple true fact of life is that you become like those with whom you closely associate-for the good and

WHAT A LIFE............

There are no absolute finish line 4 everyone in d race of life. Our tracks are different,our lanes are different & our durations are different. D only thing we have in common is the same umpire. For instance one person graduates at age 20 and struggles for another five years to get a job, another might graduate at age 25 and gets a job immediately.
One can marry a virgin & wait for d next decade to have d blessings of children, another lady probably after having series of abortions in her past, becomes a mum almost immediately after marriage. Oba onise ara,u'll say!(D mysterious God).Oba Kabio osi(Unquestionable God) A fellow becomes an MD at 38 and dies

LOOSING BAD COMPANY

Do your friends bring out the best in you?
Who you choose to be your best friend or associate is one of the most important decisions you will make during the course of your life.'' You are the same today that you are going to be in five years from now except for two things: the people with whom you associate and the books you read'' (charlie jones).
you do become like those  you closely associate with. a day away from the wrong associations is like a day in the country. The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve. Its true what proverb says, ''putting confidence in an unreliable man is like chewing with a sore tooth, or trying to run on a broken foot.''
your true best friends are those who bring out the best in you. You are better, not

HANTAVIRUS ( YOU ALL NEED TO BE INFORMED OF THIS DEADLY VIRUS)

Hantavirus pulmonary syndrome; Hemorrhagic fever with renal syndrome

Hantavirus is a life-threatning disease spread to humans by rodents that has symptoms similar to influenza.

Causes, incidence, and risk factors
Hantavirus is carried by rodents, especially deer mice. The virus is found in their urine and feces, but it does not make the animal sick.

It is believed that humans can get sick with

HAPPINESS CAN ONLY BE FOUND WITHIN YOU.

To be happy in life, we have to accept and appreciate our self the way we are.  If you don’t accept and appreciate yourself the way you are, you will never be satisfied in life. Being happy in life makes everything in your life beautiful, for me, the purpose of being in life is to be happy and useful. Some of us even wait for perfection and if you live your life wishing for perfection, you may have a very long wait. Life will never be perfect, as there are always obstacles and difficulties to overcome. A perfect life is one of balance, where good is at its peak and bad is at its lowest. We have to celebrate our self, appreciate and encourage our self. Whenever you do a task successfully or you achieved one of your goals, celebrate yourself and be happy. No one can give you the happiness you desire in life if you can’t find it within yourself. Let us focus more on what we can do for others, how useful we can be to others and how impactful we can be to the society rather than focusing on what we can get through others, by so doing we would have a lot of reasons to be happy in life. Happiness comes as a result of recognising and appreciating your strengths and what you have within you that can impact other people’s lives positively.

If as a lady you think without a man in your life you would never be happy; even when you find that man that happiness will not be there, and because of this believe you may never find that right man that would take you to the altar, you would only be used and dumped. If you go into a relationship not feeling terribly good about yourself, you're more likely to become dependent on your partner to help you feel good about yourself.  If we felt empty before they appeared in our lives, we fear the emptiness returning if they leave, so their staying with us becomes paramount. That dependency can create all kinds of fear and unhappiness when there's a perceived threat to you staying together.

If we aren’t giving ourselves the acceptance we crave, we look to those around us to provide it for us we are likely to lose ourselves in the relationship.

Below are some of the things you would lose as a lady if you think you would never be happy without a man in your life;

1.      Your dignity

2.      Your self worth

3.      Value

4.      Self respect

One of the keys to stay happy in life is to have self esteem and self confidence, have believe in yourself, tell yourself how beautiful and intelligent you are, complement yourself and know that nobody is in charge of your happiness except you, never let anyone steal it from you cause it was never theirs to take.

How To Increase Your SELFCONFIDENCE

Two main things contribute to self-confidence: self-efficacy and self-esteem.

We gain a sense of self-efficacy when we see ourselves (and others similar to ourselves) mastering skills and achieving goals that matters in those skills areas. This is the confidence that, if we learn and work hard in a particular area, we will succeed; and it’s this type of confidence that leads people to accept difficult challenges, and persist in the face of setbacks.

This overlaps with the idea of self-esteem, which is a more general sense that we cope with what’s going on in our lives, and that we have a right to be happy. Partly, this comes from a feeling that the people around us approve of us, which we may or may not be able to control. However, it also comes from the sense that we are behaving virtuously, that we are competent at what we do, and that we can compete successfully when we put our minds to it.

Self confidence is the difference between feeling unstoppable and feeling scared out of your wits. Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you. Perception is reality, the more confidence you have, the more likely it is you will succeed.

Self-confidence can also be referred to as