HAPPINESS CAN ONLY BE FOUND WITHIN YOU.

To be happy in life, we have to accept and appreciate our self the way we are.  If you don’t accept and appreciate yourself the way you are, you will never be satisfied in life. Being happy in life makes everything in your life beautiful, for me, the purpose of being in life is to be happy and useful. Some of us even wait for perfection and if you live your life wishing for perfection, you may have a very long wait. Life will never be perfect, as there are always obstacles and difficulties to overcome. A perfect life is one of balance, where good is at its peak and bad is at its lowest. We have to celebrate our self, appreciate and encourage our self. Whenever you do a task successfully or you achieved one of your goals, celebrate yourself and be happy. No one can give you the happiness you desire in life if you can’t find it within yourself. Let us focus more on what we can do for others, how useful we can be to others and how impactful we can be to the society rather than focusing on what we can get through others, by so doing we would have a lot of reasons to be happy in life. Happiness comes as a result of recognising and appreciating your strengths and what you have within you that can impact other people’s lives positively.

If as a lady you think without a man in your life you would never be happy; even when you find that man that happiness will not be there, and because of this believe you may never find that right man that would take you to the altar, you would only be used and dumped. If you go into a relationship not feeling terribly good about yourself, you're more likely to become dependent on your partner to help you feel good about yourself.  If we felt empty before they appeared in our lives, we fear the emptiness returning if they leave, so their staying with us becomes paramount. That dependency can create all kinds of fear and unhappiness when there's a perceived threat to you staying together.

If we aren’t giving ourselves the acceptance we crave, we look to those around us to provide it for us we are likely to lose ourselves in the relationship.

Below are some of the things you would lose as a lady if you think you would never be happy without a man in your life;

1.      Your dignity

2.      Your self worth

3.      Value

4.      Self respect

One of the keys to stay happy in life is to have self esteem and self confidence, have believe in yourself, tell yourself how beautiful and intelligent you are, complement yourself and know that nobody is in charge of your happiness except you, never let anyone steal it from you cause it was never theirs to take.